I think I’ve hit a nerve with a couple of recent posts about “stopping and softening.” You can read one of them in their entirety with the link below. I asked a couple of questions at the end of the one linked below: “But if you have all the money in the world, but don’t […]
Is the Hustle worth it?
I posted recently about the weekend my hubs and I spent relaxing on a houseboat for his birthday. My theme was “stop and soften.” My friend Frank L Schwartz Jr read my post and commented, “I think most of us confuse activity for industry… believing the Insta-Hustle-Accumulate-Showoff lifestyle to be the desired state, we hurriedly […]
Having your own Back!
The woman in this photo took a looooooooooong time to get to that stage. To be able to speak to that room full of women. To have them laugh, to have them gasp, and to guide them to learn about how they, too, could be bold and brave just 14 seconds at a time. See, […]
Transformation of the Heart
In less than six months, I have watched half a dozen clients radically transform their lives. They became “self-centered” in the best way. It began with questions, “But what do I want?” and “What is best for ME?” Stories were identified and reimagined. Intentions were spoken about how things would go. They found and practiced […]
At the Car Wash
A powerful coaching session can feel like going through a car wash. Layers of build-up (stories)Getting the wash (confusion)Emerge into the light (clarity) Your coach will invite you onto the track and move you forward just like that rail that automatically moves your car forward. If you’re lucky, your coach is already in neutral and […]
Test Yourself
I’ve vigorously tested myself in unexpected ways more than half a dozen times in the past decade: 2013: my then-boyfriend/now-husband + I were invited on a 16 day, 225 mile private Grand Canyon rafting adventure. We said yes, shut our businesses down for 30 days, and drove to Flagstaff to meet the group. Sixteen people […]